Thursday, December 18, 2014

Intimates and curios are not so close as they used to be

There is an observation that people these days do not seem to care as much about intimate things like gifts, souvenirs and curios as those of the past.

·        Why is this shift of attitude to closer things?
·        Is it a good or bad development?

People have always had some things closer to their hearts. But, of late, there is decline in the way they care about such things. This reversal of order has solid reasons, and, in my view, it is not an encouraging trend.

What makes a thing closer to one differs from person to person. But this difference notwithstanding, there are a few forces that keep people complacent of such things. The first thing is affluence. For example, many are able to own precious things, and presents and compliments are passe’ for them, and they switch their intimacy faster than ever.

What follows next are opportunities. To be clearer, souvenirs and curios make us remember certain times and experiences we had had. But, today, people are free-moving and they happen to get different times and experiences every now and then. Who cares of these so called “intimates?”

It is true that people value things differently. But, under-valuing an intimate object does not augur well of anyone. Closer things spice up our life. Those which make us going, at times, at testing times to be precise, are those inanimate objects. Let me make it evident. Life is unpredictable and humans are vulnerable. This volatility is addressed a little by having keepsakes very close to our hearts. A present from a distant or dead one, a curio from another landscape or a memento marking an occasion and/or the like would keep our otherwise mundane life colourful.  

All the people have the freedom to take their dear things the way they like. They may justify it in myriad ways. However, considering the value such things attach to our life, it is sad that today people are moving away from them. It is always great to have some things closer.

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Ajaypeesdoc. 18.12.14
Google. Vaatupura A. Jayaprakash


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